Are You a Healthy Leader?

Use the scales below to indicate how much you agree or disagree with the following statements.

I am good at my job.

I feel lonely.

People know the real me.

I can tell my spouse about anything that happens during my day.
This questions doesn't apply to me.

Most of the people around me just don't get it.

I am exhausted after being around people in my ministry.

I feel valued by those I'm responsible to.

I frequently get annoyed that people don't accomplish their responsibilities.

I beat myself up when things don't go well.

I feel like the world will fall apart if I take a vacation.

I feel "wrecked" when attendance is low during services.

I feel desperate for God right now.

Most of the time I spend with God or in the Bible is when I'm preparing my message.

I frequently feel jealous of other staff members on my team.

I frequently feel jealous of leaders from other churches/ministries.

I frequently feel second-guessed by my church/leaders.

Others believe I am effective at my job.

I get annoyed that people seem to deal with the same "junk" over and over.

I feel like I process tragedy in a healthy way.

How much credit do you think is yours for the income of the ministry?
The income is where it is because of me. I have a lot to do with the income. I'm a reasonable part of the income. It's all God.

What's your relationship with those who aren't your spouse? (Don't answer if single.)
I find myself fantasizing about a specific person (not my spouse). I've noticed someone that isn't my spouse but try to maintain a healthy distance. I only have eyes for my spouse. I struggle with impure thoughts.

How much input can you receive from other people?
I actively seek people who can speak into my life. I listen when people give me suggestions, but only when it makes sense. Very few people have valuable input to give. I don't receive input from anyone.

When service is over, how do you unwind.
Take it easy and process everything that happened. Unwind and process things with close friends. Try to forget everyone and everything from the day.